Life after getting married and/or having babies

[Dee]

hai mommies ato para istri di luar sana.. Mari kita share kehidupan kita setelah menikah dan atau punya anak. Siapa tau kita bs share n solve masalah2 yg ada. Aku duluan ya. Yg pasti sejak merit; aku ga pernah bs tidur cukup. Paling lama 7 jam. Pdhl seblm merit bs 8 jam ato lbh. Trus pas seblm merit aku ga pernah pusing2 ama urusan ortu. Skr pusing ama MIL. Hiks.. T_T
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[hilda]

kebalikan..setelah menikah rasanya tidurnya lebih lama dan kebluk
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kayaknya dah tenangg...aja gitu.
tapi setelah punya anak..ya gitu deh..namanya ibu baru kan, pasti tidurnya jadi agak2 kurang..apalagi umur 0-1 thn..sekarang sih udah lumayan..jadi bisa tidur nyenyak lagi..

Dee, urusan dgn MIL sampe bikin ga tidur nyenyak ya
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[velvetouch]

gw ikutaaan..

kalo gw merasa tenang krn ada suami
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tp krn dr budaya yg beda, musti adaptasi..
yah gw sih, kalo ada sesuatu, semuanya diomongin aja ma suami, krn dgn siapa lg.. hehe..
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alhamdulillah suami gw sangat sangat sangat pengertian ma gw..
dan apa yg gw inginkan selalu dikabulkan.. kecuali kerja
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iya dee, baca postingannya di thread itu.. yg sabar yah say..
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[sanetya]

Dari sebelum dan sesudah nikah:
Ga begitu beda. Bedanya cuma yaaaa kl abis jalan2, dia ga perlu pulang krn udah tinggal bareng
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. Soal manja memanjakan, dr pacaran jg ga pernah dimanja krn menurut laki gue, salah satu yg membuat dia suka sm gue adalah krn gue cukup mandiri. Dan ini berlaku pas gue hamil juga
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, bisa diitunglah pake jari tangan berapa kali dia jemput gue ke kantor selama gue hamil. Sisanya either gue samperin dia ke kantornya (yg kebetulan lbh dkt ke rmh jg) atau ketemu di tengah.

Sebelum dan sesudah punya anak:
Sebelum punya anak gue termasuk kebluk kl tidur dan ga kuat begadang. Pas ada anak, mau ga mau gue harus bisa begadang dan tidur dlm kondisi siaga...bisa juga tuh
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. Dulu kl mau pergi bisa pleng aja..sekarang walaupun laki gue udah bilang "Yuk..pergi berdua aja, Igo di rumah sm mbak"...hati gue kaya nyesss gitu *lebay*
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[Lissy]

setelah married sih perasaan ga ada bedanya ama single, soalnya aku dulu ngantor. setelah punya anak berasa tuh, jatah tidur dijajah baby. tapi setelah agak gede, skr anakku 2 taon, lumayan sih bobonya udah semaleman.
yg berasa banget kena efek sih social life, susah banget mau hang out ama temen2. apalagi temen2 aku byk yg single, mau pergi ama mereka ajak anakku kasian anakku ama temen aku pasti ga nyaman. mau ditinggal nakku, aku ga tega. masa maminya pegi maen anaknya ditinggal.
dan urusan MIL, setuju ama hilda. tp seengganya masih untung aku ga serumah.

[sanetya]

Ah, iya, Lissy. Setelah punya anak juga sepertinya kehidupan sosial agak terbatas. Bukannya temen ga pengertian tp justru saking pengertiannya nih...kadang gue sampe mikir gue dilupain, kl ada acara ga diajak
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. Soalnya temen2 deket gue emang blm pada punya anak sih.

[Cherylpink]

sebelom merit, bobonya bisa ampe jam 12 siang
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suka begadang ampe jam 3 pagi ato 4 pagi maen inet.
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setelah merit, ga bisa ampe pagi2 lg. nemenin suami bobo.
bangun jg jd pagi.
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[velvetouch]

lissy, sanetya, iya, bener bgt.. kehidupan sosial jd terbatas, yah gimana ya, kalo pd mikir takut ganggu, pdhal mah gw nyantai aja
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temen gw plus suami msh banyak yg blm nikah soalnya
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cherylpink, hidup sehat jadinya ya
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[Dee]

waah rame jg neh tret bikinan eike. Iya, abis merit, ga bisa bangun siaang..!! Dulu seblm merit, bs tdr di atas jam 12 mlm n bngn jam 9 pagi. Skr mst bngn jam 6 krn hubby mao pegy kerja. Soal beban pikiran, keknya lbh berat after merit nih, soalnya tinggal brg MIL. Mangkanya kalo kata org2 merit itu berbagi beban, aku koq merasanya tmbh beban ya. Oh ya, dulu seblm merit ada pembantu yg beres2 rmh. Skr musti beres2 sendiri. Dulu jd tuan putri skr jd babu.. Untungnya yg masak itu si MIL.
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[kwek2]

hilda tidur kebluk mah krn lo kecapekan kan.. hihi.. :P atau keenakan
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[RitArif]

Sebelom married....

Tinggal di aussie..... ngantor ........ ikut club nari perut, gym, shopping ama temen, lari pagi ke pantai (kebetulan dulu rumah tinggal jalan selangkah nyampe di pantai.....) weekend jln ama temen, nongkrong, sekali-kali clubbing...... shoppaholic crazy hueheuheuee.....

After married.....

Pindah ke Indo, stuck @ home, mau nyetir kemana2x masih takut, temen juga disini bisa di itung pake jari, shopping pun dah berkurang banget gak gila2x seperti dulu, ngurusin ijin tinggal tiap tahun bikin gondok ampe sekarang...........homesick...

Hamil dan punya anak....

Setelah setahun menikah yah jadi tahun pertama honeymoon dulu.... masa penyusuaian hehehee, seneng.... suami dah mulai sibuk juga dengan pendidikan management di kantor yang baru jadi hamil sendiri karena dia sering kel kota tapi alhamdulillah bisa nemenin untuk periksa kandungan dan alhamdulillah hamil gak ada rewelnya..... orang tua jauh, di Jkt gak ada sodara tapi semua A - Z di lancarkan....

Sekarang..

Dah mulai gila shopping lagi.... tapi buat anak, wong BH ada ampe kawatnya pada keluar bodo amat hueheuheueee... yang enaknya punya anak.... Ada hiburan dirumah suami pulang malam banget almost everyday (Para istri yang punya suami banker ato banker sendiri you know what I mean yahhh) yah intinya hidup setelah menikah buat gw Monotone tapi terarah hahahhaaaa......

[nittah]

Sebelom merit..diri sendiri santai..tapi mamak aja rewel nanya 'kakak pacarnya mana..' Huuuh

Abis merit..bingungan..bangun pagi langsung mikir ntar masak apa yah..
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[velvetouch]

nittah, lamaaa ga ketemu di thread..
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btw iya juga yah.. tiap hr gw suka bingung.. masak apa buat sarapan, buat makan malam..
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kalo udah mentok, tanya suami aja pengennya apa
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duluuuu? boro2 mikir masak.. ada nyokap
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[hilda]

imel :
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tau aja lo
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sanetya: sama..aku sebelum dan sesudah merit jg ga gitu dimanjain. karna terlalu mandiri..jadi kadang2 kalo datang manjanya jadi keliatan aneh dimatanya *siyal
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pas hamil jg sama bangett...ga dianter jemput..udah hamil tua baru deh dianter jemput
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toss ama yg lain..kehidupan sosial agak2 berkurang.. abis kadang ga tega ninggalin anak lama2..
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[nittah]

Velveeettt..helo darliiiingg..beneran deh kadang masak tuh jadi momok (hehe
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) banget..
Apalgi laki gw mood moodan,pagi ditanya bilang sayur asem,sore 'ga jadi yah,tumis kangkung aja' dhueeengg..

Setuju ama sanetya n hilda,kehidupan sosial kok rada2 gimana gitu..
Pdhl gw belom punya anak,tp gw ngerasa kok jarang diajakin lagi gitu
Ntar klo ditanya 'ya kan lo uda ada suami,ga enak mau ngajak,ntar suami marah pula'
Halaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh....
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