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[Hanzky]

Teman teman, terima kasih banyak yah atas ucapan belasungkawa nya, baik everyone of you yang ninggalin message di forum ini (I'm sorry there's too many too mention)...di YM, email, facebook, SMS bahkan telfon (Ella, Wulan, Indrya, Rani, Debbie, Ria, Dhyta, Anai, Utie, Koukla, Shinta, Woro, Lena, Vitsky dll..I'm sorry if I missed anyone)...banyak juga yang nomernya gue nggak tau dan nggak ninggalin nama. We really appreciate the support and the encouraging words you have showered us...
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We're still sad, but we're okay..udah ikhlas dalam melepas kepergiannya. Mudah mudahan Almarhum di sambut dengan baik kedatangannya di rumah baru nya, di lapangkan kuburnya, di terima semua amal ibadahnya, di ampuni semua kekhilafannya dan di hindari dari siksa kubur. Amin.

Mungkin memang ini yang terbaik yah, karena Almarhum bokap udah sakit selama 2 bulan terakhir ini. Ada tumor ganas di paru paru nya yang deket letaknya sama jantung dan pita suara, serta komplikasi lainnya, jadi udah sempet operasi segala sama jantungnya pun di triple bypass. Udah 5 kali bolak balik rumah sakit and spent like half of those days in the ICU room. Sampe akhirnya hari Sabtu kemaren di bawa pulang ke Jakarta karena beliau kayanya udah cape dan mau istirahat di rumah aja, udah nggak bisa bangun sendiri lagi, udah susah untuk ngomong. I think the last time I heard his voice was sometimes last month, jadi selama ini kalo nelfon beliau cuma bisa dengerin aja.

Beberapa hari terakhir juga beliau seperti udah ngerasa mau pergi jauh, because he kept asking for forgiveness, dan selalu bilang 'titip anak anak' ke nyokap..he was practically in the dying stage. Kita pun udah nyiapin mental dan ikhlasin beliau untuk pergi, karena rasa nya egois sekali kalo kita kekeuh untuk mempertahankan, lagian kalo memang udah ajalnya, no doctor, no hospital equipment and no medicine in the world can help. So, we were somewhat prepared walaupun tetep aja nothing can really prepare you for the death of your loved ones...you might think you're ready but when it really happened, it takes time for reality to sink in. It hurts knowing that some part of you is missing, because he is a part of you and what makes you you....it's hard to realize that you don't have someone to call dad anymore, that you will never see his face, that he will never be physically present in all of your life joy and triumph. It also especially hurts that you think you haven't done anything worth mentioning to make him proud. There goes the security blanket for the whole family (terutama buat nyokap dan 2 ade gue), someone to look up to, someone to fall back on, someone you know you can always count on..and it's even harder that you're far away, ngerasa nggak berguna karena you can't be there when your family need you the most, to at least give him a little comfort, provide him with your care and love. Tapi ya gimana, memang sikonnya nggak memungkinkan, and sometimes you just have to do what you gotta do.

Gue pun sebenernya udah ngerasa banget that this will happen even though there's that part of me that still hopes for miracles. Waktu tau pertama kali sakit 2 bulan yang lalu gue juga langsung ketakutan dan nangis di telfon, I've never been one to cry in front of my mom, but I guess I felt what was going to happen, what he was about to go through. Sehari sebelum bokap meninggal gue juga udah berasa banget, I cried all the time..and I finally came to terms that to let him go was probably the best gift I could ever give to him. I didn't want to prolong his pain. Jadi gue berdoa minta yang terbaik sama yang di atas, karena yang terbaik menurut gue belum tentu yang terbaik menurutnya. So I told him in my prayer that it's okay for him to go, and that he doesn't have to feel guilty, I gave him the assurance that we all will be okay and he doesn't have to be worried. At least it relieves me knowing that my prayers were with him through it all.

Yah mudah mudahan bokap udah tenang sekarang, he has completed his journey. Alhamdulillah kemaren prosesnya di mudahkan. He passed away peacefully in his sleep, around 9 in the morning. Langsung di mandi kan dan di shalatkan di rumah dan di kubur siangnya. Banyak banget yang melayat dan yang bantuin. Mudah mudahan, anak anaknya bisa membuat beliau bangga ya, if anything, this challenges us to be a better person, untuk melanjutkan apa yang selama ini menjadi teladannya..he set a pretty high standard for us to even come halfway close to what he's done. He had a good life, and he gave us a good life, and I cannot be thankful enough for the way he raised me. He left the world around him a much better place than when he had found it..and I'm so proud of it. So Long Daddy, May You Rest in Peace!!

Sekali lagi terima kasih semuanya for the support, it's really nice knowing that so many people care...
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.. please jangan jadi pada jarang posting yaa karena baca baca forum itu hiburan banget buat kita..
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[Durian]

Dear Keluarga besar Hani dan Hana....
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
May GOD bless u and gave u strength & peace in this difficult time.
What you should know is that he is not dead but he has return home where we all belong, Amen.

Sincerely'
Durian

[wulan]

Hani, aku nangis baca post kamu
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Hold on strong ya, you and your family. Please keep yourself healthy, we're all worried about you. Thank you banget udah nyempetin waktu untuk ngecek forum nya. Mudah2an kita semua ga bandel kok
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[pink^koala]

Hanzky, turut berduka cita
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[sheesha]

hani + hana..

yg tabah yaa..
may he rest in peace!

[loucee]

Hani...

Glad to finally see your post in here, although sadness still quietly sneaked inside me while reading it. I do really hope that you are well, and your family will be given the strength in this unfortunate situation.

kita2 di forum gak bandel kok... biarpun ditinggal untuk sementara waktu sama sesepuh forum, tetep takut sama mod squad yang meuni pada galak2... hihihihi... *peace modssss...*

anyway, again... please take care... we all can't wait to hear the good news after this from you... the birth of princess fd junior yang pasti akan disambut gegap gempita dengan percikan pigment aneka warna...
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[Hanzky]

makasih yaaa durian, pink^koala, sheesha..
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uber kamu jangan nangis doong, sayang itu dendongannya, pasti maskara nya luntur deh..
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loucee..iyaaa modsquadnya galak galak, ati ati kalo ke gap OOT sama shinta yang lagi kesakitan ngasih ASI ke naia..
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[moopiechan]

Hani, lo tabah bgt ya...
g aja smpe nahan aer mata g baca nya, secara g lg kerja n depan g ada atasan ...
almarhum pasti bangga bgt sama anak" nya... may he rest in peace
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[Opi]

Hani, almarhum Ayah lo pasti sangat merasa beruntung sekali punya anak seperti elo.
Take care yah, dear...

[r_widiastri]

Inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un

Hani, Hana & whole family,
turut berduka cita, semoga almarhum diterima amal ibadahnya, diampuni semua kesalahan & kekhilafannya & mendapat tempat yang mulia di sisi Allah. amien.

Hani, Hana & whole family, be strong yah & tetap berdoa buat almarhum... take care

-astri-

[miss_chinoscuro]

Hani aku sampai nangis tersedu2 baca postingan kamu. Bener2 tau gimana rasanya dan posisi kamu (bring me back 10 years ago when I found out that my dad had brain cancer and he also only got 2 months left after we found out). Rasanya sedih banget dan gak tau harus bagaimana. Rasanya pengen teriak, pengen marah. Tapi ya buat apa, itu gak akan membuat papa sembuh or balik lagi. Gosh, it was just so hard.

Han, kamu yang kuat yah. Yang tabah. Inget baby kamu. Kalo kamu tertekan, dia juga ngerasakan. Kita semua ada disini buat kamu. Maybe not physically, but our prays and hopes are always be with you and your whole family. Please do take care.

[pompidou]

Hani,
aku meweek..
rasanya keinget lagi pas nyokap mertua gue meninggal. ngga siap mental karena gue yakin banget dia sembuh..
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yg tabah dan sabar ya Han, setelah baca postingan lo diatas gue yakin you'll be okay. i'm sure you are..
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salam buat Hana, take care ya you two..

Alapuuuuu, Hani!!

[niens]

Innalilahi wa inna illaihi roji'un
Hani & Hana, aku ikut berduka cita se dalam2nya ya...

[bulelenk]

Dear HANI & HANA

aku turut berduka cita yg sedalam dalamnya...
yg tabah ya say.. cups

[wulantahun]

hani n hana Turut berduka cita,semoga Almarhum diterima disisi Nya,Amin Ya robal alamin... hiksss hiks jadi ikutan mewek baca postingan hani..Yang tabah yah...