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May 10, 2012, 05:50 PM   #346
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Re: Nope, We're Not Supermoms!

lagi ga sabar......anak gw maunya asiii teruss...kalo wiken ogah makan....huhuhuhuhuh...apa harus di sapih ya..umurnya hampir 2 th
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Jun 13, 2012, 02:29 AM   #347
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baca cerita ibu2 disini jadi merasa "gw ga sendirian " hehehe
Anakku baru 1 sih cuma maunya ngintil aja kemana2,bahkan tidur harus di perut emaknya...malem2 juga maunya nempel2 mlulu...sering banget ngerasa "kapan gw bisa punya waktu buat diri sendiri"...
cuma aku coba bersyukur sama keadaan,walau anakku rese tetep kalo ga ada dia pasti ga se"bermakna" ini hidupku hehehe...
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Jun 13, 2012, 12:54 PM   #348
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ugh... baru semalem nih, aku merasa kesian amat ameera (18m) kena jadi sasaran maknya yang yang lagi unsatisfied sama kondisi kerjanya, lagi makan malem, ditungguin gue, padahal udah bisa makan sendiri, lagi pinter pulak makannya, cuma karena nyendoknya miring jadi tumpah deh, mak-nya langsung ngomel2, tapi jadi istighfar deh, bukan salah dia juga, duuuh... kesian amat yak anak gue
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Jun 15, 2012, 01:55 PM   #349
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baca thread ini jd mellow sendiri. jelas aku bukan supermom, Nayla udah sering ditinggal pas coass n skrg juga ketemu tiap weekend aja. kurang sabar ngadepin Nayla apalagi pas jaman kerja n ga ada PRT semua dikerjain sendiri, capeek. jd gampang bgt ngebentak n pernah nyubit juga hikss T-T
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Jun 20, 2012, 02:38 PM   #350
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gw baru jadi mommy setaun, & working mom. dan baru belakangan ini, anak... biarpun baru umur setaun udah mulai pinter cari perhatian yang kadang sampe malem... gw dah ngantuk2, & si daddynya mah udah ngimpi apa tau. gw suka kesel, & negasin baby gw untuk "Tidur!!" ... ee dianya malah cengar cengir & gandeng2 gue ke arah mainannya. klo udah cape banget gue cuekin, trus dia jalan/merangkang sendiri ke mainannya, trus dia maen sendiri, sesekali gw intip, gw mergokin wajah baby gue yang memelas ngeliat ortunya pada tergeletak & di wajahnya (mungkin) sedih or bertanya2 kenapa ayah & ibunya ga mau maen sama aku, atau kenapa momy dady ga mau liat kepintaran aku... baru deh bis itu gw sergap langsung nyamperin dia, ngebelay2 & cium2 sambil excited ngajak dia maen... and always dia langsung tersenyum lebar. duuuhhh... sedih bangt deh gw klo kaya gitu, gw jadi selalu inget & mikir why we have to blame on our baby/kids for something that we couldn't do....
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Jun 27, 2012, 01:25 PM   #351
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Re: Nope, We're Not Supermoms!

Sometimes I feel like a bad mom.
Karena anakku aktifnya super duper aktif (like his mom when she's a kid), aku suka lepas kendali dan marah.
That's bad.

@ladykika: you're not alone ...
Dan sekarang aku mulai cengeng pengen nangis...

I miss my son :'(
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Jun 29, 2012, 03:57 PM   #352
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i am too
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suami pernah negor gue pas gue curhat kalo lately anak gue manggilnya mbanya mulu.. kata dia "makanya pas lagi sama anak, handphone jangan dipegang2 terus", huhuhu.. he's right. niatnya mau foto2.. trus berlanjut liat twitter "bentar", ternyata timeline lagi seru, jadi keterusan. trus pengen langsung post foto anak di instagram, trus jadi liat foto2 lain, trus trus trus.. si anak jd terbengkalai main sendiri
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i miss my little missy...
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Jul 1, 2012, 07:02 AM   #353
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Kalau mau marah sama anak, ingetnya nomer 1 : serang perilakunya, bukan anaknya. Jd gue mesti nyebutin ke anak gue perilakunya yg nggak sesuai.
Nomer 2 : gue juga berusaha mbandingkan dgn dirinya sendiri, bukan dgn anak lain : "kemarin kan bisa mandi sendiri, kenapa sekarang nggak bisa?" bukannya "kok nggak kayak si A sih yg mandi sendiri tiap hari?"
Tiap marah, ingetnya 2 hal itu.
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Jul 2, 2012, 09:46 PM   #354
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kl aku lg stress krn 2anak jarak dekat pula,jd yg besar suka pukul yg kecil..hadeuh kl lg kya begitu rasanya mau nangis banget
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soalnya tangan cuma 2,kadang ga ada wkt utk diri sndr refreshing
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Jul 3, 2012, 07:32 PM   #355
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Mspinky.. I know how u feel, tp kl kasusku adeknya yg suka cakar2 kknya
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huhuhu mana b'bekas lg di pipi sm tangannya huwaa

Anger management kynya makin parah d.. T'utama utk si adek. Bukannya mau ngelampiasin ato apa. Tp kl dibilangin ga bisa, malah diulang2 trs.. Kluarlah teriakan2 sakti!! Manjat tralis jendela itu gpp, naik prosotan sambil berdiri dr bagian slidenya still OK, tp kl mrosot t'balik n telentang kepala duluan OH NO!!! Coba handstand dg kaki dinaikin k dinding, sampe bener2 hampir 180%.. Ngubek2 kolam sambil nangkep ikan pk tangan.. Tuhan ampuuuuunnn.. U're not even 3!! Gimana nanti ABG yaa??
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Jul 12, 2012, 12:33 AM   #356
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PerahuKertas: sama, gue juga tipe soliter. Plg suka me time tu baca, nonton or jln sendiri.
Sering bgt nyesel kl abis marahin anak, tp ya gt lah, kdg pas lg kejadian jengkel. Apalagi kl pas cebok ga bisa diem, mainin gas dan melakukan hal2 yg membahayakan dia. Anak umur 2 thn diksh tau jg ga ngerti. Gemes bgt ...

But then again, nyesel abis2an... Skrg lagi merenung & berusaha utk lebih sabar.
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Jul 13, 2012, 07:52 PM   #357
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Feel very guilty.. Anak gw muntah utk kesekian kalinya di kasur nyokap, emosilah gw.. kan dah mama blg ga boleh makan trs lompat2! Ee Nyokap gw nangis.. Ktnya gw galak bgt k anak
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jd ngerasa salah sm adek+nenek jg
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Jul 16, 2012, 02:39 PM   #358
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anak gua udah jatoh 2x dari kasur, dan dua2 nya pas gua yang lagi jagain...

gua sering banget ketiduran pas jagain nathan.. gara2 malem nya begadang soalnya kalo bobo anak gua ga pernah nyenyak, selalu gelisah dan maunya sambil ditepuk2...

ampe dimarahin semua orang... hubby, nyokap ama tante.. even BS gua juga ikut negor, hiks...
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Jul 18, 2012, 08:55 AM   #359
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vanness77 sama banget ama anakku yang kecil, bulan depan umurnya 2th, super duper aktif, kalo dicebokin lari ke mana2, segala ember dinaikin, dibilangin baik2 sampe dibentak masih cuek aja, jadi harus kuangkat berkali2, ini baru soal cebok, belum yang lainnya..bener2 menguras emosi dan keringat
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Yang makin bikin nyesel, kakaknya kadang kena omelan juga padahal si kakak termasuk anak anteng dan penurut, gara2 emaknya ga bsa kontrol emosi, jadi kena getahnya
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duuuh...ada yg jual sabar gak ya??
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Jul 24, 2012, 05:15 PM   #360
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Baca cerita2 disini jadi berasa kl ga sendirian. Aku jg punya masalah dgn pengendalian emosi apalagi kl lg capek. Susah bgt rasanya kendaliin emosi kl kondisi lg ga mendukung. Kaya pagi ini, sblm brkt sekolah di rumah kena pemadaman listrik, bekal sekolah blm siap krn gas tau2 ga mau nyala pdhl abis diganti, anakku rewel dgn kaos kakinya. Masalahnya sepele, dia maunya pake kaos kaki warna biru, buat aku ga matching sm bajunya, jd pake sepatunya di mobil dan aku sengaja ga bawa yg warna biru tp bw yg abu2. Ternyt anakku inget (dia akhir thn ini 3 thn), dan ngeyel ga mau pake. Jadilah di mobil dia teriak2 dan nangis2. Sementara aku yg udh berasa hectic bgt dr pagi pgn dia nurut, ikutan teriak juga ngebentak dia. Untung aku lg nyetir, jd tangan ini ga turun
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Alhasil berasa nyesel bgt pas ninggalin dia di kelas, msh aku cium dulu dia baru kutinggal. Udah janji dalem hati kl kudu bisa kontrol emosi, tp kok blm berhasil juga..

Mom nadned, kl ktm yg jualan sabar sharing ya, mau ikut kulakan nih...
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